Well after expressing myself with different types of blogs ,here comes the most awaited and heart touching blog which i hope will be loved by you all.Because you know what, through this blog ,I am going to bestow my respect and usher my love to all those beloved people whom i came across till date in my life,whom existence have helped me to grow as an individual...whose love has been special for me always...whose care has always been pretty much adorable.....My family....because some relationships in life are always special...
Family is a tree,which binds everybody..It is the root which nurtures our character...it is the seed from where a baby aka plant grows..It shows our culture...heritage...Well being a married girl now I have two families but first I want to showcase my parents ,as my identity and everything came from their only...My origin or old family constitutes 4 people including me...My father.,..My mother..,.My sister and me..and now I have another family..My husband ,me and My mom in law..Hence with two families by words but united with a one single FAMILY now after marriage...I think my parents whom i have always regarded as my godfather,,,here with the help of words I am pretty much able to showcase my feelings and respect for them and my hubby and my mom in law..must be loving after reading it...i hope all of you those who are reading this blog will agree with me ..Now lets have a look for the next....
My father- Mr Nitai Chandra Datta (PAPA)
.My father has always been my godfather or inspiration for me since childhood.I know ,daughters are always special for their fathers,,for me also it goes well with it..But for me he is someone who is extraordinary ...Being an ex army man,.,His strong personality has always affected me deeply..I am the elder sister and from my very childhood i was pretty known to the fact that I am the elder one,.,I have to do my duties well..I was very young when my sis came into our life..we all were so happy and specially me,My father taught me that ,being strong and independent is the necessity for life..He taught both of our sisters to be self sufficient,,Be it any work I have seen him helping my working mom..He used to care us like a mother,,When i used to be alone in my house.,.,caring my little sis, he used to come home often to see me whether I am ok or not,..He has loved me with everything,,Today when i recall my childhood ,I miss those days,,
I was never a silent girl...I was a tomboy and still I am..I never played with dolls but papa used to buy dolls for me,,I loved roaming and giggling with my friends in my colony...Sports and cultural things have always been in my pulse forever.;My papa always admired me..he never stopped me from anything.He always paved me the way to go on..move on,,,he scolded me.. ,,...he taught me good lessons whenever things were wrong...He supported me in my everything. I remember whenever he use to come home from office...he used to bring something for me and sis.,We both used to wait for that,,,It was so special...It might be any chocolate or lozens...or anything but that mere small gift was like a true treasure for me,.Be it in my academics,,,or in music...art dance...he never said that.."Dont do...this...dont do that"...i have seen some of my friend's parents to restrict something...but my papa was liberal...he gave us freedom...he believed us..he knew that we both were honest and still we are..he never pampered us so much..neither my mom also..I used to cry sometimes in my childhood ...by seeing my friends and their parents,pampering their kids.but now i can feel may be those were the best means to nurture a child ,as someone can value things and people only when they will see crisis...crisis not only means money..that thing by luck never came in to our family..but apart from that i have grown up seeing many things..I thank my papa for this..
I know my papa is getting emotional while reading these,,But it was a very small thing for you ...its my love and respect for you..Remember..MUM will always with you in any condition ...I am a winner...who believes in herself..I am a fighter like you,...It was a painful moment for you and me also ,,the day and the moment when i got married ...you gave my hands to that person who is my husband,now,,i know how painful is that moment for every father,,And that day my strong papa cried .,.seeing which i cried..
Stay healthy...stay good...Love you.. Papa
-My Mother- Mrs Dipali Datta(Ma)
Mother is someone ,whose contribution in our life is timeless..My mother is someone whom i really miss after my marriage...I hope every married girl misses..Its common thing,,I have admired my mother always..
Lets take a look in my childhood chemistry with my mother,,As far as my memory is concerned my rapport with my mom was never fine..She scolded me like anything,,,everytime i used to get scoldings from her,.Apart from her sweet scoldings (which i find now sweet),i remember how she used to beat me,,I used to cry like that of RUDAALI...LOL...My crying was famous in my colony...But apart from all these stuffs,she cared for me like anything,.She was a working mother and being a working woman now i can feel the pain and troubles which she felt at her times ,while nurturing us..We were in a rented house in our childhood days.,And it was not so easy for her to maintain her worklife balance with her family..We had loads of problem with bathroom....water supplies...and electricity..But all those hastles were covered by my mom..I salute her always.,I believe many women would have lost everything...but she was never soft and delicate...she was and is always a strong woman,still now..She is multitalented.
'My mom was a teacher in a private K.G SCHOOL at belgharia in her earlier days but soon with her merit she cracked govt job in primary school .Besides her ambitious character she was master in art,and still she is..,Her drawings were stupendous...her art work with anything was amazing..Her stiches..and handicrafts were mindblowing..She used to be the painter in her school..During pujas,,,one should see her ALPONA..I wish i could showcase all your creations in one album..then you could believe how master she is..My interest in art and music grew from her only..
Despite living in so much trouble she used to teach me in my childhood days and my sincerety in education drove from her only..When my sis was a baby...she used to hold her in her lap and used to teach ,me and i stood 1ST in class 1,.i remember
My interest in dance came at age of 4..I used to copy and dance like that in TV...Soon she drove me into the dance classes and used to sit and made me practice in home..It was KATHAK...i learned till 2nd year and one incident happened then..There was a club in our colony and my mom had one harmonium which she bought for herself in her days ...but she didnt get time to continue it..So mom thought of me ,performing in that club ...But i knew nothing...She taught me SA RE GA MA PA....and she was my first guru...she taught me one Rabindrasangeet " AAJI PRONOMI TOMAARE "...I sang ..and everybody were urging and requesting for ONE MORE.....This thing stucked into her head and soon she drove me to my music classes..but passion is dedication..its tough to maintain both things at a time..i chose..music..,..singing,...and then and then music became my soul and passion.
My mom is a supermom..She is fast and forward in everything.Her immense knowledge in literature.her playful mind and joyful nature is always loveable..She is at a times very fast learner,,She is practical and straight forward..Sometimes people misunderstands her but she is honest in her opinion.She is never biased,When things go wrong anywhere ,she will protest always...she will guide you in everything,,if you dont want also,,,still she will care for you..I hope my hubby agrees in this...as he is new in our family and he has experienced the careness and love of his pyaari SASURI MA...
The day when i got married..I was shocked to see her so strong.She is strong and my papa always admires her lot.,She has suffered many pains..when my papa was out of station..she was alone with her only kid..may be i have seen loads of things in my childhood and being elder daughter its always responsibility which comes first in mind ..i feel now how much contribution this lady has done for her family, She has sacrificed her whole life..Never I have seen demanding anything ..She is so simple in dressing...sometimes i scold her now to think about herself..She is giving nature..She is LAXMI in our house,,..From my school days to my college..My establishment as an OPTOMETRIST was for her only...She was the person who saw the advertisement in newspaper and suggested me,,Her modern thinking as a woman has always inspired me..She is independent and always wanted both of our sisters to be strong and independent...she used to teach us all household stuffs alongwith,,,Mom says...Work is worship...Be it any work,,,we all should know everything,,everywork...So we have learned..And still learning...Still now after marriage she always insists me to do this and that..she cares a lot...for me...i miss her,,i feel that in my childhood days i never recognised her love...now i can...i respect this woman who never demanded anything from this family...but she has always given and given,,,
Ma i will always be there with you ...in anytime..This is a very small thing to show you my love and respect...i hope you will love after reading this..
Love u maa....Stay healthy and good...
My sister- Debarati Datta(Mampi)
My sweetie..cutie pie..My angel...You know what...i still remember the day and the moment when I first saw her...in Command hospital...I was so little then to understand everything but I realised the very truth that some angel has appeared in our family..Being single child is something very special where all of your attention seeks to everybody surrounding you but being siblings makes you more generous and responsible..(my view)..a partner with all day all life with you...a friend to share with and a room to share with also..
We both were and are..infact will be the bestest buddies throughout our life..I became a mom for her at a very tender age,,I was so young to feed her with food,to bring her home from school..My mom was in school and i had to play the role a bit of it..I was jealous if somebody could take her away from me,,she was like my asset...Many people...my friends ,family or relatives..know that I am always a joveal funloving kinda crazy girl...from childhood..A tomboy insane with ugly duckling..better to say..My dolls were played by my friends and me.,..hahahha...all day all along with my bicchu paraa.. friends playing all stuffs that boys used to play..I used to take my sis with her and we both giggled and miffed...with everything.
My sis is multi talented...Though I was her first guru in dance but now when I see her enjoying her passion with ODISSI..I feel proud..She is good in academics...dance...art...crafts...blog writing...poet..and many more..She has become so strong and responsible now that I feel relieved..
LOVE YOU ...sotty moni......Never change yourself...
My husband- Monojit Malakar
Well kisine kaha hain...."Marry your friend you will be happiest person.."...I dnt know whether I am the happiest person or not,nor i can define what else it can be in future as I believe that Life is unpredictable..but all I can say is no one other than you could understand me,well..May be the GEMINI power tingling.,..GEMINI WEDS GEMINI...And madness continues..
It was destiny i believe personally,for which we met,,,JAB WE MET...I am thankful to facebook for it...I remember how you came into my life like a stranger and dheere dheere we drove to each other in friendship.Friendship is trully a pure gift of god..and every relationship complies friendship in it,.I was never a girl who would dream of something blah blah blah...but romanticism and charisma....all gave a new interest in my life from you
If i would describe my husband come friend in one word...then it would be \difficult as...words are not enough in dictionary to describe you dear,.,,I have seen the responsibility..the madness,,,the.,..pagalpanti...the sensitivity...the affection,,,the emotions...the love.and .the romance.in you and the saga goe s on...blah blah blah...And these qualities or traits are enough for me to behold you..Your honesty and your sincerety towards me with your love have been proved for many times.,.Being the person...with all responsibilities in one shoulder..I am here to beg you for that...Give me your pain...and grievances,....I can share with you..
We are bestest buddies...and by gods grace we are married since 18thy nov 2015..and i hope we will continue our friendship all along in our future days,,
A notorious mind but a quiet guy,,,A shy but a good friend to mingle with....An emotional but sometimes practical...Innocence with maturity..A child with a master ,,,thats all i can say for you ..."an ace in a acke"This is my husband ...I know if you are reading it out you might be wandering about me,,,But as i told before...sometimes jotting out words in a blog are bestest mode to express than to say anything....
Love for me has always been an undefined thing...I believe in one thing.Trust,respect and friendship...These three things are the most imp thing in a relationship...I dont know ...whether by giving some sort of lectures will be worth of defining a a relationship.But i believe...life is a movie...we all are here to play our roles...being a girl..we have to play different roles..same as for the guys also..the thing is enjoy playing your roles..
Love you lot....
My Mom in law(Mamoni)-
Now I want to introduce you all with last but not the least member of my family..my MAMONI..My mom in law...Being a woman she is an epitome of dignity ,elegance and gentleness..She is silent...She is funloving at a times when situation comes..Me and she we both share a good equation by gods grace,.,Its not much like pamperness but its not like of that typical SAAS BAHU relaionship..
.so called conflict..no never..We three in my new family..enjoy everything..
I wish with time and years...with moments all together our equation will grow more stronger,,Being a woman,,,she always maintains her elegance and her place in our home,,,She is liberal and friendly also..I have never seen her poking into anything rigorously,,.,She never speaks rudely. She is so soft and dutyful..She never does nagging,,.My respect for you will always be there in my heart and hopefully in future I will also be the daughter in your heart,,,Afterall a woman understands a woman...and mom in law- daughter in law...can bind a good friendship..isn't it??
Long live Mamoni...Stay healthy,,,
Henceforth I am closing my emotions here but i hope you all would have liked it..Its bit of my love and respect for MY FAMILY..after all...and I am sure with this small piece of dedication MA,PAPA,MAMPI,MONO,& MAMONI will love it...
